Everyday life with children is often a major organizational challenge – especially for working parents. An au pair can provide the ideal support: flexible, family-oriented, and international. But how do you find a suitable au pair in Germany?

What is an au pair?
An au pair is a young person from abroad who lives with your family for several months, helps with childcare, and gains insights into German culture. In return, you offer:

Accommodation & meals, Monthly pocket money (currently €280), Integration into everyday family life, Requirements for you as a host family.

To be eligible to host an au pair, you must: have at least one minor child in the household, Speak native language as the family language, provide a private room for the au pair and register with the au pair insurance and, if necessary, the immigration authorities.

How to find a suitable au pair
The easiest way is through a reputable placement platform such as www.auost.de. There you can:

Browse suitable profiles, Contact directly, Handle contracts and formalities digitally. It is important to get to know each other openly via video call – this way, both parties can quickly determine if the chemistry is right.

Legal Matters & Formalities
Depending on their country of origin, the au pair may need a visa (except for EU citizens). Registering with health insurance and signing an au pair contract are also part of the process. Many platforms offer templates and support for this.

Conclusion:
Finding an au pair is easier than many people think – and can enrich your family enormously. With good preparation, clear expectations, and the right platform, a contact quickly becomes a new temporary family member.