Being an au pair means embracing a life full of contrasts — from peaceful nature walks to sleepless nights filled with tiny footsteps and midnight cries. My typical week is a beautiful mix of chaos and calm, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. If you’re curious about what it’s really like to live as an au pair abroad, here’s a peek into my life.

Morning Hustle and Park Adventures

Most days start early. Breakfast prep, school lunches, and getting the kids dressed is a whirlwind of energy. But once everyone’s out the door, things begin to settle. On quieter days, I take the little one for a stroll through the park or on a short nature walk. These moments — watching the wonder in a child’s eyes as they spot birds or jump in puddles — are what make being an au pair so fulfilling.

Afternoons of Learning and Play

Afternoons are a blend of activities, school pickups, snacks, and playtime. Whether it's drawing at the kitchen table, building blanket forts, or helping with homework, no two days are exactly the same. Flexibility is key. As an au pair, you learn to juggle routines while staying patient and present.

The Night Shift: Cries and Cuddles

Evenings can be the most challenging. From bath time chaos to bedtime stories and occasional night-time wake-ups, being an au pair isn’t always easy. But there’s something incredibly special about those quiet, sleepy cuddles — moments when you feel like part of the family, not just a caregiver.

Finding Balance as an Au Pair

Self-care matters. I make time for coffee breaks, video calls with friends, or connecting with other au pairs on platforms like auost. Sharing experiences helps me stay grounded and supported.

Being an au pair means growth, laughter, and learning — every single day. If you're considering it, embrace the ups and downs. This role isn’t just a job — it’s an unforgettable chapter in your life.

Join auost to start your own au pair journey — your adventure awaits!