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How Much Does an Au Pair Cost in Germany? Host Family Costs in 2026

Auost team 7 Aug 2026 76 likes

An au pair generally costs a host family in Germany around €550 to €850 per month once pocket money, language-course support, travel to the course, insurance, accommodation, and food are included. Mandatory benefits include €280 monthly pocket money, free room and board, at least €70 per month toward an attended German course, necessary travel costs to that course, and suitable insurance. Actual costs depend on the household, location, and any voluntary extras.

Typical monthly budget

Expense Typical amount Mandatory?
Pocket money €280 per month Yes
Language-course contribution At least €70 per month Yes, when a course is attended
Travel to the language course Depends on location Yes
Health and accident insurance Depends on policy Yes
Pregnancy and childbirth cover Depends on policy Yes
Private liability insurance Depends on policy Strongly recommended
Private room and food Household-dependent Yes
Mobility, phone, and leisure Individual Usually voluntary

Pocket money is not a salary. Room and board are provided in addition and must not be deducted from it. Paying by bank transfer creates a clear record. Families should also check the nearest suitable language school, lesson times, and whether a local transport ticket is needed.

Insurance should cover the full stay and be suitable for the residence purpose. Compare benefits, exclusions, deductibles, pregnancy cover, and liability protection—not only the monthly premium. A host family should also budget for extra food, utilities, and household supplies.

Voluntary benefits may include help with arrival or return travel, a nationwide transport pass, SIM card, bicycle, family trips, and first-aid or childcare training. Agree in writing which extras the family will pay.

An au pair should not be viewed only as inexpensive childcare. It is a cultural exchange with limited duties and working hours. The arrangement can be valuable for families seeking planned support at home and willing to welcome a young person as a temporary family member.

Frequently asked questions

Who pays for travel to Germany? Usually the au pair, unless both parties agree otherwise.
Is pocket money paid during holidays or illness? It should continue during the agreed stay.
Is an au pair cheaper than a nanny? Direct payments are usually lower, but the roles are not equivalent. An au pair is not a professional full-time nanny.
Does Auost’s free Ultra trial renew automatically? No. The seven-day trial ends automatically and the free basic account remains.

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