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Auost is an innovative online platform that connects families with qualified au pairs. We offer a range of services including personalized au pair matching, verified profiles, real-time messaging platform, online au pair training, video interviews, background checks, and interactive profiles. Our goal is to provide a comprehensive solution for all your au pair needs.

Auost uses an AI-powered matching algorithm to connect verified users based on their needs, preferences and compatibility. Users can browse profiles and chat. Users receive automatic matches directly on the platform as well as daily notifications via email.

How are the users verified?

Similar to various social media platforms, users at auspost can submit relevant documents via platform for verification.

When should I apply to be an aupair?

Ideally, 6-10 months before you want to leave the country.

How good do my language skills have to be?

Language skill requirements differ from country to country. In many countries, aupairs are required to have a basic level of the national language of the country where they would like to work as an aupair.

What are normal tasks for Aupairs?

Some typical tasks for Aupairs are: Loading and unloading the dishwasher Doing the children's washing and putting it away Making the children's beds Tidying the children's rooms Doing a little bit of shopping Looking after pets for children Emptying the rubbish Preparing snacks or meals for children Going to activities with children Communication is key, speak with host families about their expectations and requirements.

Duration for an Aupair varies based on hosts country. Stays between 3 to 12 months are possible.

Working hours vary based on host family and host country. Working hours from 15 to 40 hours per week are typical. Contact your host family or check the embassy of your host family to get specific information.

Requirements to be an Aupair

1. Age: Typically, between 18 and 30 years old. Visa: Some countries may require a specific aupair visa. Language skills: Some countries require basic knowledge of the host country. Childcare experience: Some countries require having some experience working with children, such as babysitting or volunteering. Health insurance: Aupairs are typically required to have health insurance coverage for the duration of their stay. Background check: Some countries require aupairs to undergo a background check. Education: Some countries may require aupairs to have a high school diploma or equivalent education level. It's essential to check the specific regulations and guidelines of the country you are interested in working in to ensure you meet all the necessary criteria.

Host families requirements

1. Legal requirements: Host families must comply with the legal requirements set by their country's government for hosting an aupair. Cultural exchange: must foster cultural exchange by assisting aupair in learning about their country. Housing: Host families must provide a private room and access to shared facilities like the kitchen and bathroom. Meals: Host families are typically responsible for providing the aupair with meals or a food stipend to cover such costs. Transportation: Host families may need to provide transportation or access to public transportation. Language: In some countries, host families must provide access to a langauge course. Requirements vary per host country.

The amount of pocket money varies in every country but ranges usually between 250 and 450 Euro.

Depending on the country, au pairs get 1-2 full days off minimum a week. Once a month, a complete weekend.

Depending on the host country regulations, aupairs may have 2 to 4 weeks vacation yearly.

Working hours Aupairs

Working hours differ between countries and host families. But are typically 20 and 40 hours a week.

It is recommended that au pair insurance includes travel, health, liability and travel accident insurance. Depending on the host country, the costs of the au pair's insurance are covered either by the au pair or by the host family.

Aupair Language Course

Aupairs normally pay for language courses themselves. Some countries such as Germany stipulate that hostfamilies must contribute a sum towards language course and also transportation to language course.

Travel to host family

The travel costs to the host family are usually covered by the Aupair. In some cases, the host family may offer to cover all or part of the travel costs.

Host families are not obligated to pay for visa fee but some families may offer to reimburse it. Host family pays for shipment of documents to Aupair for visa processing.

Auost – Au-Pair finden I Gastfamilie finden I Visum Vorlage I AU-Pair Versicherung I Au-Pair Fragebogen

Finding support quickly may feel urgent but choosing the right person deserves time.

Recently, an acquaintance told me she was looking for an au pair.

She explained that she did not want to use an au pair matching platform because the process felt too slow. Social media groups seemed faster, and paying between €50 and €100 for premium platform features did not feel necessary to her.

My first thought was: I understand.
When a family urgently needs support, waiting can feel incredibly frustrating.

Between work, childcare, school appointments and everyday responsibilities, many parents simply want to find someone kind and reliable as quickly as possible.

But our conversation made me pause.

An Au Pair Is More Than Childcare

An au pair is not simply someone who helps with babysitting.

They are often a young person leaving their home, family, language and familiar culture to become part of yours. They may share your busiest mornings, your children’s difficult moments, family meals, school runs, laughter and bedtime routines.

That kind of relationship needs time to grow.

Social media groups may generate responses quickly, but a fast reply is not always the same as a suitable match.

Families and au pairs need time to speak honestly about:

Childcare experience · Safety · Working hours · Cultural differences · Communication · Household expectations

A warm profile and one friendly conversation cannot tell you everything you need to know.

Would You Choose a Kindergarten This Quickly?

I asked my acquaintance to imagine choosing a kindergarten or school.

Most parents would want to ask questions, understand the environment and feel confident that their child would be safe, respected and supported.

Choosing an au pair deserves that same care.

This does not mean that every family must pay for a platform. Free social media groups can also lead to wonderful connections.

However, structured profiles, secure chats, video calls, identity verification and matching tools can help both sides make a more informed decision.

The Real Cost of Rushing

A rushed match may initially feel easier. But when expectations do not align, it can become stressful for everyone—especially the children and the au pair.

Families should also look honestly at the full financial commitment. Hosting an au pair may include:

Pocket money, food, accommodation, insurance, language-course support, transportation and additional household expenses.

My honest opinion:
A platform fee of €50 to €100 should be considered in relation to the responsibility of welcoming someone into your home—not simply as a fee for accessing profiles.

The Right Match Is Worth Waiting For

The right au pair may become someone your children remember for many years. They may bring a new language, traditions, laughter and warmth into your home.

So take the extra video call.

Ask the uncomfortable question.

Talk about ordinary days not only the exciting ones.