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Find answers to common questions about au pair matching, host families, visas, costs, and Auost membership.
Looking to host an au pair or become one? You’re in the right place.
Auost FAQ & Resource Center is your go-to guide for everything you need to know about au pair programs in Europe and beyond. Whether you’re just starting out or ready to find your perfect match, this page gives you clear answers, expert advice, and step-by-step guidance — all in one place.
Our FAQ covers everything you need to know about the au pair experience:
Use this page to explore the most common questions about au pair programs in Germany, UK, Netherlands, USA, and across Europe — and learn how Auost helps you every step of the way.
There isn’t one answer for every family. An agency may be preferable if you want more hands-on assistance, while a platform may suit families who want greater control over the matching process and a potentially lower-cost option. The important thing is understanding exactly what support you are getting before you commit.
Yes. Moving abroad is a major change, and nervousness is normal. However, persistent concerns about fundamental aspects of the placement shouldn't be ignored.
There is no universal timeframe. Some au pairs feel at ease after just a few days, while others need several weeks. The settling-in process can depend on the au pair, the children's ages, the family's routines, language differences, and the level of family support.
Auost is a dedicated au pair platform that connects au pairs with host families. The platform is specifically designed for au pair placements and does not currently offer other types of jobs or employment opportunities.
After registering, you need to activate your account by clicking the verification link sent to the email address you used to sign up. If you don't see the email, check your spam or junk folder. Once your account is activated, you should be able to log in. If you're still having trouble, contact our support team for assistance.
Create an account on the Auost platform and register as an au pair. Please complete your profile with information that allows host families to get to know you, such as details about your background, interests, and preferences. The platform then uses this information to match you with host families whose backgrounds and expectations align with yours.
No. Sharing how you're feeling with your host family can help build trust and prevent misunderstandings. Most families appreciate honesty and want to support their au pair as they settle into their new environment.
Feeling respected, included, and able to be themselves makes the biggest difference. A welcoming environment doesn't replace home, but it can become a place where new memories and meaningful relationships begin.
Cultural exchange is about sharing everyday life. Traditions, food, celebrations, family stories, and personal experiences all help host families and au pairs understand one another beyond childcare responsibilities.
Rather than concentrating on gender, ask questions about childcare experience, communication style, conflict resolution, daily routines, and expectations. A thoughtful interview often reveals far more about compatibility than personal characteristics alone.
Are you a family looking for reliable childcare or an au pair searching for a trusted host family,
Auost helps you find the ideal match quickly and safely.